Where to move with children? A lawyer’s tip on choosing a country for family life
Where to move with children to ensure them a safe future, quality education, and a comfortable life — an overview of countries and legal nuances from a practicing lawyer.
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Factors to consider when preparing for the move as a family with children
Planning a move together with children requires a special approach. First and foremost, here’s some personal advice based on client cases: Don’t choose your future home based on photos and videos on social media. Instead, focus on specific criteria that ensure your family’s long-term stability.
Quality of education
If you’re considering moving with kids, the quality of education is one of the most important criteria. When choosing a country, pay attention not only to international university rankings, but also to the accessibility of primary and secondary education for foreigners. In some countries, such as the United States and France, children are accepted into public schools even if their parents don’t have a residence permit. However, in other countries, residency is a requirement.
Keep in mind that public schools teach in the local language, so your child may feel the need to adapt. International private schools may be a good fit in this situation.
Healthcare
Healthcare and insurance are other important factors. Children often get sick, so parents need to research health insurance policies, service quality, and clinic availability in advance. Emergency care is available to everyone, but routine and preventive care is usually only available to residents with public or private insurance.
Find out the cost of family insurance in advance, as well as whether healthcare is free for children. In most countries, children are included in their parents’ insurance policy at no additional cost. Also, find out which vaccinations are required for kindergarten or school attendance.
Safety and attitudes toward immigrants
A safe environment with low crime rates is a top priority for any family. It is important to consider not only national indicators but also the specifics of individual cities and neighborhoods, as low rent in a major city may reflect a less desirable area with higher crime rates. Including safety checks in your moving checklist can help you make informed decisions and choose the right location for your family.
Also consider the level of social acceptance. How friendly is the local community toward immigrants? Are there integration programs for foreign children in schools?
Cost of living and social support
Family financial planning should include more than just rent, utilities, and groceries. It should also include expenses for daycare, extracurricular activities, leisure activities, and clothing. Family budgets vary widely across countries. In some countries, the government subsidizes certain expenses, such as free school lunches and benefits for large families. In other countries, however, you must pay for everything in full. Always plan a budget with a buffer for the first 3–6 months.
Ecology and climate
The environment plays a significant role in a child’s health, particularly if they have allergies. Northern European countries are renowned for their exceptionally clean air, while southern Europe offers a mild climate rich in vitamin D. Consider how your child will cope with the extreme heat of the Middle East or the high humidity of tropical countries.
Legal aspects of immigration
As a lawyer, I emphasize that legal status is key to accessing social benefits. Without a residence permit, you may be unable to enroll your child in school, rent long-term housing, or receive comprehensive healthcare and banking services. Furthermore, families without residence permits face a high risk of deportation.
There are many ways to become a legal resident abroad, including employment, business ownership, investment, and moving as a financially independent individual. A common scenario is when a man finds a job, obtains a residence permit, and then invites his relatives for family reunification. However, there are some exceptions: for instance, in Cyprus, an individual can only initiate the relocation of relatives after living there for at least 2 years. In some countries, you can obtain a residence permit or even citizenship through investment. This is one of the fastest immigration routes for wealthy families.
Each program has its own requirements, including a minimum investment threshold, eligible applicants, a timeframe for obtaining status, and language requirements. At this stage, it’s worth consulting with lawyers to choose the best option based on your situation.
Mirsatori can assist you in obtaining a UAE residence permit. We can help you with business registration in the Emirates, real estate purchases, and managing your finances and obtaining visas for all family members.
If you’re considering Brazil or Chile as a place to live, Mirsatori lawyers can help you determine the best option for you and complete all the necessary paperwork.
Practical advice to help your child adjust
Moving to a new city can be stressful for a child, especially when they have to adapt to a new school and make new friends. On moving day, surrounded by moving boxes and a moving truck, a child feels anxious or uncertain. A simple way to help your kid is to involve them in unpacking and setting up their new room. It can support their sense of comfort and control. Here are some tips for moving that can help kids adjust more smoothly:
- Discuss the move as an exciting opportunity. Read books and watch videos about the new country’s nature and traditions.
- Start learning basic phrases («Hello», «Thank you», «What’s your name?») through play. This will make your child more comfortable with their new environment;
- If possible, take a vacation to the chosen city. Visit parks, stroll past the future school, and try the local food. Familiar places will reduce anxiety upon arrival;
- Budget at least 20-30% more than expected. Expenses double in the first year due to deposits for housing, furniture, school uniforms, extra language classes, and administrative fees;
- Research the insurance system in advance. Collect a child’s «health card», which is a record of vaccinations, allergies, and chronic illnesses, and is written in English or the local language.
Make sure all family members have passports that are valid for at least two years. Obtain notarized consent from the other parent for travel if you are not traveling with the entire family. Get apostilles or consular legalization for birth and marriage certificates—without this, documents are often invalid abroad. Don’t forget to prepare certified translations of key documents in advance.
In conclusion
There’s no ideal time to move, but proper preparation helps. The more transparent the process is for a child, the sooner they’ll start calling the new place «home». Moving abroad with a family is a significant challenge that requires courage, patience, and a detailed approach. However, as demonstrated by thousands of successful cases, this journey is absolutely surmountable. A comfortable and safe life for your children in a new country rests on 3 key pillars: choosing the right destination, understanding the adaptation process, and properly preparing the necessary documents.
No detail in the immigration process is insignificant: any legal error can cost your family time and peace of mind. Our company’s specialists are ready to handle the most difficult part of the process: legalization and bureaucratic support. We will be your trusted partner, allowing you to focus on what matters most—supporting your loved ones and building a new home.
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